We split our repentance process between two tiers, one our religious relationship with G-d and the other our personal relationship with our people. The following video speaks to both tiers:
1. It calls to me as a son to think about what my parents did for me;
2. It calls to me as a father to be that kind of parent for my children;
3. It calls to me as a human being to think about what Gd does for me.
Here it is; maybe you can watch this without tearing up, but I can't... (if you are very short on time, skip the first minute)