tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post7400326564035612337..comments2023-09-11T17:58:13.764-04:00Comments on The Rebbetzin's Husband: DissedThe Rebbetzin's Husbandhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14977193945074906534noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-50634305274197306142011-07-05T14:59:21.243-04:002011-07-05T14:59:21.243-04:00I am the same Shmuel as above --after I commented,...I am the same Shmuel as above --after I commented, it occurred to me that the older fellow was also quite disrespectful to the rebbe who suggested that the two of you learn together.<br /><br />It would be one thing to say "I am not sure that the suggestion will work out," and another to laugh and dismiss the rebbe's suggestion.<br /><br />Another reason the individual should truly be embarrassed.Shmuelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-45726648550533732842011-07-04T14:46:53.739-04:002011-07-04T14:46:53.739-04:001. if you finished all of mishnayos a few years pr...1. if you finished all of mishnayos a few years prior to your junior year of high school, you must have been pretty serious about learning no matter whether you fit into someone's stereotype of how a learner should look.<br /><br />2. the older "baki" who was so rude certainly ought to cringe when he remembers his behavior.Shmuelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-32739302411343377182011-07-03T21:18:03.025-04:002011-07-03T21:18:03.025-04:001)lishmah is not in the text.I was emphasizing tha...1)lishmah is not in the text.I was emphasizing that he did it for no ulterior motive.<br />2)You yourself stated that this <br />Rebbe or Rosh Yeshuva is excellent in learning but no mention of his relationship with his talmidim.Hopefully he doesn't relate to them as he did to you.<br /><br />For a Rabbi or Rebbi to be effective the "ohev et habriot" must come first.daat ynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-66645266905796701102011-07-03T19:26:30.910-04:002011-07-03T19:26:30.910-04:00Russell-
The change didn't trace to that time....Russell-<br />The change didn't trace to that time. More to the point: Is unintended mussar actually mussar?<br /><br />Jack-<br />Agreed.<br /><br />Daat y-<br />1. Who has "lishmah" in the text?<br />2. I must say I am not familiar with any yeshiva which is guilty of that. University professors, yes; Yeshiva rebbeim, no.The Rebbetzin's Husbandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14977193945074906534noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-69021589827403475162011-07-03T15:53:14.520-04:002011-07-03T15:53:14.520-04:00IMHO-
There is even more to learn from the second ...IMHO-<br />There is even more to learn from the second story.<br />Thankfully, though he had a negative effect, there were other role models who knew how to relate to you as a human being first.<br />Aharon was "ohev et habriot lishma(psik)only afterwards "mekorvan la Torah."<br />It is sad that some Yeshivas only look at the lomdus of the Rebbe and not how relates with his talmidim.daat ynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-90669040254597170522011-07-03T15:40:35.765-04:002011-07-03T15:40:35.765-04:00It sounds to me like he was obnoxious without caus...It sounds to me like he was obnoxious without cause. We all make judgments based upon appearances, but at the same time we know that what we see is not always what we get.Jackhttp://www.thejackb.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7898782635470765614.post-20030293137072972342011-07-03T15:31:15.857-04:002011-07-03T15:31:15.857-04:00You still remember that story, and you no longer d...You still remember that story, and you no longer dress that way... Maybe he accomplished more through his chastisement.Russellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00452758052108522468noreply@blogger.com